Anyone whose ever been in a relationship for more than a few months knows that sex does come up eventually. It either happens or it doesn't. Everyone has their reasons on why they're not having sex. But hey, those of us that are in loving committed relationships usually do at some point.
I think its absolutely ridiculous for someone to propose that their relationship is stronger than mine because they aren't having sex. Especially when their relationship is much different and younger. We're goin on almost 4 years here, and they're barely past a year. It's up to them if they choose to be intimate, and vica versa. NONE YO BUSINESS!
So to the person who said this, sorry you and your partner aren't having sex. That's your issue to cover, not mine or anyone elses. Communication, trust, and lovea are much more important than having sex. Thoughts? Questions? Concerns?
It could be jealousy but also I think it is a lack of understanding/confusion on how your relationship functions and works because they don't live it. People tend to make judgments on topics if they don't understand it because it isn't quite like their own experiences and the idea that your relationship is based on sex could be their best explanation for it without taking the time to take a step back and analyze it. But then do you really want people analyzing your relationship and getting all the juicy details on why it works? lol
ReplyDeleteWell he isn't the sharpest tool in the shed lol. Trying to show off by boasting about how rich your girlfriend is, isn't really a great thing to be talking about all the time. You might be able to figure out who brought this topic up haha :P
ReplyDeleteomggg. i was just writing a blog about judgments and jealousy. We think so alike <3
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